Friday, August 18, 2017

Camping trip somewhere deep in the Romanian mountains

I have just spent a week in the mountains of Romania camping with 17 children.  There were 11 girls in our room and 7 boys in the other room.  Each room had one toilet, one shower, and two sinks.  Hot water was available for two hours in the morning and three hours at night.  The water was heated by burning logs.

The invitation to eat each meal was made over the loudspeakers by playing First Call.  This is the song played by a bugle at horse races to call the horses to the starting line.  The food served there was EXACTLY the same as the food served here in the care home.  Breakfast was salami, bread, tomatoes, cheese, tea, and Nutella.  Lunch was soup with bread, followed by rice or boiled potatoes and a cookie snack. Depending on the day, dinner was one of the following:   Sarmales (stuffed cabbage rolls), sauerkraut with sausage, corn mush, schnitzel, or boiled potatoes.  Pickles and bread were always on the table.

There is a river that flows next to the camp.  These Romanian children simply stripped down to their underwear and jumped in and nobody thought twice about it.  Some Romanian children were taking sticks and prices of string and making bows and fishing poles out of them.  These were young kids, maybe six or seven years old.  The best part was that their creations were functional and they had no help from their parents while they were making them.   I was quite impressed with their workmanship.

A couple of times, swept-wing military planes flew overhead and I began to wonder if there was something going on outside of our little corner of the world.  There wasn’t any internet signal available during the entire week so I was very out of touch with the rest of the world.  And then I began to wonder if Romania even had an air force…they do, as well as an army and a navy.  I’m always a little uneasy when I am in Eastern Europe when I see the military in action. 

During the week, the children were kept busy with crafts, Bible study, riding zip lines, playing in the river, learning new songs, playing new games, playing on swings, and climbing on an actual rock wall.  We finished the week with a nine foot tall bonfire.  Some of the children were singing and playing guitars, while others were watching the fire.  Some of our group slipped away to watch the night sky which was crystal clear and filled with stars.  We even saw several shooting stars.  The best part for me was being used as a pillow by several children who were eagerly searching for shooting stars.  It was incredibly peaceful just laying there on the ground contemplating and enjoying God’s magnificent creation. 


It was a fantastic week filled with children being children (fighting one moment and laughing the next), bug bites, scraped knees, stickiness, cold coffee, ice-cold rivers, and new friendships.  It was a great experience for me.  It was a privilege for these children to be able to escape to the mountains and forget everyday life for a week and I have been blessed to have been a part of their summer.

Friday, June 23, 2017

Romania Assignment

Romania is filled with stunningly beautiful scenery full of majestic mountains and blue lakes. Unfortunately, the part where I am staying is not one of those places. Here the landscape consists of mostly flat farmland filled with corn, wheat, and sunflower crops with a backdrop of a major highway. We are in a little village fairly close to the Hungarian border.

The compound where I am staying is huge! On the site there are 7 two-story bunkhouses with 10 beds in each bunk house, a two-story church building, a gymnasium which is still being built, a massive two-story woodshed / shop building, the owner's tiny home, and a rather large, two-story home for at-risk mothers. The at-risk mother's home contains a kitchen and a dining room that serves the entire property. Between the church and the mother's home is a delightful play yard for the children.  There is also a soccer pitch and an old airplane landing strip on the rear of the property.  All that has been created on this property simply amazes me.

The dozens of residents (mothers and children) who reside here are survivors of a living hell on Earth.  They are all broken, hurting individuals at different stages of recovery. There is a sullen, angry teenage girl who has been involved in the sex trade, probably from age 6 onwards.  There are bubbly babies who have known no other life than life within a group home because their mothers have abandoned them here.  There are 8 year-olds who are struggling to learn that they will be fed regularly and that they don't have to eat all they can in fear of not having another meal.  Some children share freely; others refuse to give up whatever treasure they may be holding.  There is a beautiful 6 year-old who runs to get hugs every chance she can and she holds on tight and long before she is ready to be released.  I don't know her background, but I hold her for as long as she wants me to.  All of the children are survivors of some kind of abuse, neglect, or abandonment.  Not surprisingly, there is also a lot of mental illness interspersed among the residents.

As always, there is one child that has absolutely stolen my heart.  This time it is a chubby little fellow who resembles a young Jason Bateman.  He is one of the food driven children.  He cries at the drop of a hat but he also smiles so very, very mischievously when he gets caught doing something wrong.

My main job here is to watch over three rambunctious little girls.  They look and act very much like the girls in the Minions movies.  It makes my job very challenging and I am not ashamed to admit that the tiny, little 3 year-old is kicking my butt daily.  Also, eyeglasses are no match in the hands of a 3 year-old.  Did I mention that the kids are really, really fast?  This will be the most difficult assignment that I have had so far, but I am blessed to be a part of the amazing work which is being accomplished here.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Forgiveness


Wow.  What a month, eh?  Obama out, Trump in, anger everywhere, and yet another school shooting.  Sadly, you probably didn’t hear about the school shooting because it occurred on Inauguration Day.  There are a couple reasons why I am bringing up the school shooting.  First, it happened at a high school which I attended in a very small community in rural Ohio.  The second reason centers on the actions of the victim of the shooting.  He is a young man named Logan Cole.  Logan took two 12 gauge shotgun blasts at point blank range.  While Logan was laying face down on the floor, he was talking to the shooter asking and begging him to not cause any further injury to anyone at the school or to himself.  Logan convinced the shooter not to hurt anyone else. 

Logan has approximately 70-80 pellets lodged in his body; one of them is in the right side of his heart.  Two are in his spinal canal.  There are multiple fractures and breaks in his backbone and his right lung is damaged form the pellets.  The risk of infection is of great concern.   As Logan was coming out of sedation in the ICU, one of the first things he did was to ask his parents to pray for the shooter.  Continually, from the first interview until now, the family of Logan Cole has called for prayers, not only for Logan, but also for the family of the shooter.  The donation funds to support Logan Cole will be divided between a college fund for Logan, the high school, and to support the family of the shooter.  Throughout this horrific event, the Cole family has chosen to be an example of how Christians are supposed to live.  Their forgiveness and concern for others have demonstrated their unshakable faith and have provided a model of true Christianity in action. 

I’ve spent some time in reflection of how I would probably react if this situation had happened in my family.  It’s a bit embarrassing to admit, but I don’t think forgiveness would be the first option I would exercise.  Would I have immediate compassion for the shooter’s family?  Yes, definitely.  But would I have immediate forgiveness for the shooter?  In all honesty?  Probably not.  It would probably take me a while to decide to forgive the shooter.  As I have discovered over the past four years, it sure is easier to forgive the little things in life than it is to forgive the big ones. Some days immediate forgiveness comes easily and other days, I completely mess it up. Every day, I’m working on making my actions reflect how Christians are supposed to act.  Because in the end, it is our actions that matter; it's our actions that the world sees.  The Cole family, through their actions, have shown the world true Christianity in action. I want to aspire to follow their example of faith in action.


“Everything is easier said than done.  Wanting something is easy.  Saying something is easy.  The challenge and the reward are in the doing.”  Dr. Steve Maraboli